I was talking to a coworker the other day about this random lady that we (sorta) know. The coworker commented that the lady has two sons that live with their father. She then muttered something about that letting us know what kind of woman she was. I couldn’t cosign on that.
Honestly, I believe that if a man is a good father, he should have custody of his sons. Let me clear, by “good father” I mean hard-working, keeps a clean home, active in the boys’ school and extracurriculars, cooks dinner, etc. You know, all the stuff that the mothers typically do. If a man is doing all of that and setting a good example in other areas, I think it would benefit the man-children.
Now, if he is trifling- can’t keep a job but can keep a bunch of girlfriends, doesn’t help with homework and thinks mickey dee’s is an acceptable dinner, then they are probably better off with their mothers.
My coworker vehemently disagreed with me. She believes that children should live with, and be raised primarily by, their mothers no matter if they are boys or girls.
What do you think?